"Women's happiness - would be nice next to you..." Look carefully around you. If there is no one around, then you are depriving one of the fair sex of her legitimate happiness. And something needs to be done about it.
Why don't you still have permanent woman??? Because...
Walking up to a girl you don't know in a club is like stepping into a cage with tigers. It's even easier with tigers - at least these beasts won't look at you like you're an empty place...
Everything is fixable
It can, of course, be assumed that the lady dropped in here only to pay a hundred rubles for a cup of bad coffee and spend the whole evening in proud loneliness. Sometimes it happens. But rarely. Much more often girls go to clubs and parties for the same reason you go there. Type unwind in a pleasant company. And why are you not a company, you ask? So attack boldly, observing the following rules. Approaching the chosen target, look it directly in eyes. You can't do that with tigers, it's true. But with girls you can - in people, a direct look demonstrates the openness of your intentions and provides instant psychological contact. Not be afraid to ask trivial questions. Attempts at the very first phrases to demonstrate all their inexpressible intelligence and a rare sense of humor are always risky. But banality is good in moderation - you should not be interested in whether the beauty believes in love the first time and who she is according to the horoscope. Ask if the place next to her is free, what is her name, how long has she been here and if your interlocutor likes this club. If, nevertheless, it turns out that the place is occupied, her name is nothing, and she doesn’t like the club at all, because all sorts of people hang around here ... well, well ... So she just doesn’t get it, that’s all. Nothing personal. Let's get another one.
About Napoleons, Al Pacino and other small giants of big deeds, you already know everything without us. But for some reason, the thought of the Borodino field does not at all console a person who is trying to have a small talk with a girl whose bust literally catches his eye. Because both are on the same level.
Everything is fixable
Stop courting the women's basketball team of the Russian Federation - this is a mediocre way to assert yourself. There are an incredible number of petite girls in the world. Dreaming to meet, finally, cute young man with whom you can talk without risking injury to the cervical vertebrae.
Recently, this was opened to you in a purely friendly way by a lady whom you had the honor to kiss a couple of times.
Everything is fixable
kiss is not quantum theory anyone can learn. First, don't stick your tongue out too far. There is absolutely no need to demonstrate how thick and long he is. Secondly, do not flutter them too quickly. You need to work more thoughtfully, and not make the girl feel like you are trying to clean her wisdom teeth. Third, don't try to suck all the air out of her mouth - for getting a vacuum in the lab. Nobel Prizes no longer give.
Passed stage.
Swallow before kissing, otherwise it will turn out slobbery. When no one is watching, practice kissing the inside of your own wrist. (When he starts to like it, stop exercising so that it does not become a habit.)
First, women like self-reliant and independent men. Secondly, any girl, even the sexiest one, will be pretty discouraged in bed by the fact that your mother is trying to fall asleep behind the wall. Who, perhaps, does not want to receive such confirmation that she has a very capable son.
Everything is fixable
Move. There is no money to rent an apartment - rent it on shares with a few friends. Having formed three or four, you can rent a very good room. And if you are such a loving and caring son, just visit your mother daily. And don't think that without the dirty dishes you left in the morning, the pigsty in the bathroom, and the calls from your buddies in the middle of the night, she will feel lonely.
You met the woman of your dreams. But here's the problem - you can't invite her to have dinner together, because the money is enough for one hot dog at best. And that without mustard.
Everything is fixable
There are two scenarios.
Option one- you decide to earn money. But not by finding a job in the nearest stall in the wholesale market, but by sitting down and thinking about what you would really like to do. Even if you don't understand it at all. Choosing a profession - go to study. Even borrowing money for it. During the training, you receive not only knowledge (which is not bad in itself), but also some equally important things - documents about education and connections in the area of interest to you. So you automatically cease to be "an uncle from the street" and turn into a young specialist who will be willingly hired. Even with part-time salary- you are still more interested in connections, information and experience. But after a year and a half, you, having fully oriented yourself in the chosen environment and becoming your own in it, will be able to choose a corner there to your liking. For an appropriate fee.
Option two You don't want to make money for anything. In this case, your only chance is to immediately turn into a person of art. Artist, musician or writer. Stuff your apartment with avant-garde films, insane books, start dressing strangely and quoting Ayurveda, Shakespeare and Tovstonogov, out of place and out of place. Along the way, you can write or draw something like that. There is a whole class of women whom you don’t feed with bread - let them warm some unrecognized genius with female care. (By the way, sometimes something worthwhile comes out of these "warmed up" ones.)
I became her good friend
You are already in love with her for a long time and you don't want to look at others. She also treats you well, often meets with you and loves to talk during these meetings about what else her boyfriend did, who is a miracle how good in bed. And in general, you have no secrets from each other - you are real friends. Is not it?
Everything is fixable
Is not it. But it’s not worth jumping up like that and finally throwing out all the passion that has accumulated in you. The best weapon best friend is patience. His only chance is a detour. Wait for the moment when this goat eventually reveals to her all his goat essence. And you will come to comfort. Stroking on the head, carrying it in her arms, drinking sweet tea ... With a properly conducted consolation process, she will not even have time to come to her senses when she realizes that happiness is what it is. Smart, affectionate, all-understanding and extremely favorably different from the scoundrel she had just exposed.
I work like a horse
During your last rendezvous, you first gave the girl full analysis market, told her a couple of fresh jokes about the work of your legal department, and then quietly switched off. She left and, in general, did the right thing. Since you don’t have time for all this nonsense anyway, the plan is on fire.
Everything is fixable
Backwaters love affair at work. Contrary to the widespread superstition that they do not end well. According to statistics, every fifth married couple I met in a working environment - and this is not surprising. When people have roughly the same work schedule, the same circle of friends and similar work interests, it is much easier for them to agree on everything else.
If you don't have a girlfriend, what should you do?
There are many more single girls than single guys. Therefore, if you have no girl, the reason must be sought in yourself. You need to start with your appearance, behavior, attitudes towards the opposite sex.
One of the most important reasons why do not you have a girlfriend , your confidence. What are you afraid of. Girls and women will begin to communicate with you with pleasure. Just believe in yourself! You are a man, man! What's the matter? Perhaps you have low self-esteem? Communicate with a smile. Speak clearly, slowly. Very often you can meet a lonely guy who, when communicating with a girl, begins to stutter, get nervous, and stutter. Control yourself.
In order for you to have a girlfriend, you need be persistent. Are you afraid to meet? Stop it! Girls are much more shy and afraid of this. The initiative should always come from you. Don't be afraid to be rejected. 
The reason may be in appearance. Girls love neat guys. Tidy up your wardrobe. Buy some new jeans, T-shirts, sneakers. Know how to dress stylishly. Wash more often. Take care of your nails (no need to varnish them), just put them in order. Buy expensive toilet water, and do not forget to use it. How funny it is. Brush your teeth twice a day, use mouthwash. Often this is the only reason.
Perhaps you have no girl because you value yourself too highly. Looking for a fashion model or at least a “queen”. Come down from heaven. Face the truth. Maybe you're not so handsome. Look for a young lady not according to external data, but according to spiritual ones, to match yourself.
I sincerely wish you good luck.
You will succeed, the main thing is to believe in it!
Many guys eventually become very worried about the situation that they still have not had a girlfriend. Someone actively thinks about this omission only with age. And someone is very unpleasantly surprised that he has matured, there was never a permanent girlfriend. Why the guy does not have a girlfriend - we will explain the reasons today, everything is fixable!
Quite acutely, the guy experiences the absence of a girlfriend if all of his friends have been dating their girlfriends for a long time, and some of them even managed to get married.
In such a situation, someone can find their pluses. After all, you don’t have to painfully choose for different reasons for a friend or call every evening, looking for an opportunity to arrange a meeting.
However, a relationship with a girl seems to most guys to be more attractive and significant than those small advantages that complete freedom from a relationship gives.
One of the most common reasons a guy doesn't have a girlfriend comes down to the fact that he's just not looking for her. Many guys naively believe that a relationship with a girl should appear by itself, as they say, out of nowhere, as if at the behest of a magician.
But the emergence of a relationship with a girl cannot be a sudden event. This is not too short and very emotionally expensive process. In order for a guy to have a girlfriend, you first need to at least be able to make a longer contact with her and start developing relationships. Naturally, this will require some effort from the guy.
If the guy does not want to change anything, let alone make efforts on himself, believing that this is just stupidity, then the girl will not appear. After all, in order to implement own desires, people still somehow, but begin to act.
A different kind of problem can be if the girls in most cases simply ignore the guy, regardless of his active attempts to make acquaintances or relationships.
Due to overindulgence computer games many guys are left without a girl. But this cannot be a reproach. This is just an occasion to clearly illustrate the fact that a certain circle of hobbies often becomes an obstacle to the emergence and continuation of relationships with the opposite sex.
After all, if a person is fascinated around the clock, for example, by a specific sport, computer games, fishing or something else, then this particular hobby will significantly limit the possible social circle.
For most girls, wrestling or football, fishing or hunting are of no interest. If you meet a girl who is fond of something like that, then her character can be very specific.
If you are interested in something and there are girls in your society, then you can try to just make contact with one of them. For example, ask for a phone number or immediately invite someone somewhere. It may also be that you do not have a girlfriend due to the fact that you simply have nowhere to look for her. After all, sitting around the clock, not going anywhere, you can reduce your chances of meeting literally to zero.
The girl does not materialize by chance in your place and definitely by mistake will not end up in your kitchen. If you prefer not to be the first to contact girls on the Internet, then there is no chance at all to start dating someone.
To meet a person, you at least need to see him and. No one is pushing you to directly approach girls on the street or register on a dating site.
But your social circle, which inevitably gives the opportunity for chance meetings, should definitely be expanded. Do not refuse invitations from friends to gather in a company where there may be girls. Be sure to attend parties where there will be many of your friends.
After all, friends often bring their friends. And this gives you a great chance to make new acquaintances. Find in yourself the effort to get out of a cozy, but very limited little world. There are many guys who actively meet girls, but long-term contact still does not work.
Why the guy does not have a girlfriend - the reason for this is certain problems in communication. Think about how easy it is for you to communicate with other people in ordinary life. It is very difficult to communicate with such qualities as shyness, the habit of giving comments inappropriately, lack of skills to maintain a conversation, misunderstanding, indecision, or even fear of directly communicating with girls.
There is only one way to solve such a problem and overcome all of these shortcomings. We need to communicate as much as possible. Communication is one of the skills that, with an increase in the number of “trainings”, will only give positive results.
The answer to the question why a guy does not have a girlfriend may be that you have overly inflated requirements for a potential chosen one. If you tend to look for the best, literally perfect, then this indicates your pickiness.
Girls, as well as guys, cannot be perfect in absolutely everything.
And ideal people simply do not exist. After all, you most likely are not perfect perfection either. So why not be a little simpler? This will significantly affect your relationship with girls.
As you know, people around are drawn to easy-to-communicate people by themselves. The girls definitely need to do some concessions. After all, they are called the weaker sex. And initially making a lot of demands on a potential girlfriend, you will only create tension in communication. The girl will feel like she is on an exam and will not want to continue communication.
Meanwhile, by spending more time in communication with a particular girl, you can get to know her better by discovering in her those positive sides that were not previously suspected. So take the situation into your own man's hands and start changing yourself. Then there will be no problems in communicating with girls.
Why does the guy not have a girlfriend - or maybe the time has not come yet? ...
In this article, I will answer the question that goes like this: Why don't girls want to talk?»
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Many guys think they don't have a girlfriend because that he has no money, appearance failed or he's just boring. In fact, it's a scourge of guys to justify themselves and say that other guys have something better, which is why they have a girlfriend, and I don't.
Those. guys are specifically looking for some reason, to somehow justify their loneliness and don't go meet girls. Guys begin to project their failures in past relationships or failures with girls onto the future. As a result, the guy starts to think like this, if I didn’t have a relationship in the past, then the same thing will happen in the future.
So, back to the question: Why don't I have a girlfriend?»
In fact, it should be argued as follows.
If you want to find yourself a worthy girl and create a relationship with her, you don't have to stay at home and argue that you are bad, and no one wants you, but you need to do everything completely differently.
You have to start working on yourself., and the most important work is to gradually remove all your fears and doubts and wrong beliefs.
To do this, start read useful literature on this topic and start practicing it on real girls. To do this, you need to start getting to know each other and monitor your results. After a few acquaintances, you need to come home and draw conclusions!
For example, you will understand that your voice is trembling, as a result of which all the girls cannot understand what you are saying to them, and as a result, they merge you
After the following acquaintances, and communication with girls, you can understand that your appearance is below the baseboard. All your clothes are gray and nondescript, and many girls laugh at your choice, and look at your clothes with contempt. In the end, you just need to take care of your wardrobe and buy yourself bright and suitable clothes.
After a few more acquaintances with girls, you will understand what smells like shit from your mouth, and you will again remove this reason and start chewing gum before meeting.
Plus everything else you will have a real experience of dating girls, since you practice and get to know each other very often. Your voice will become loud, your movements will become correct and the girl will immediately understand that you are a worthy young man and sooner or later will start dating you.
In other words, keep working on yourself and train, and sooner or later you will find yourself a decent girl. If you just look for excuses, then you will always be alone and no one needs you!
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It has long been believed that it is difficult for a girl to find a guy, and vice versa: young people have a much wider choice. At the same time, there are many who are unlucky in matters of the heart. Having been defeated a couple of times, the guy may consider himself a loser: “What is wrong with me? Why don't I have a girlfriend and all my friends are dating someone? Well, if such reflections do not remain at the stage of self-pity. What can be done?
Not all genetics endowed with broad shoulders, tall, muscles and other attributes of the standard of male beauty. And although not everything can be changed in your appearance, something is worth working on.
First of all - hygiene. With a person who smells bad, it is difficult to stand next to, not to mention communicate. Therefore, it is worth taking care of the cleanliness of the body, hair and clothes.
Hygiene is a manifestation of respect for yourself and others.
Older men may have one more nuance: old, worn out clothes. Someone thinks like this: “This prom suit still looks great! You can wear it to work." Clothes are not cognac, and they don't get better with age. If a girl sees that a shirt is more than five years old, she may think like this: if a guy does not understand why he needs to update his wardrobe, he will not approve of the purchase. new clothes for your beloved.
This does not mean that you need to catch every peep of the outgoing fashion. This is not necessary in order to look decent. It’s just worth understanding that clothes lose their appearance over time and definitely don’t make their owner more attractive.
The same can be said about bad habits. Some guys frown on girls smoking and drinking but expect to be forgiven for it. Everyone wants to have someone around who will take care of their health, as well as those around them. In addition, the rejection of such habits indicates willpower - a quality that commands respect.
Good manners - it is on them that attention is drawn immediately after the appearance. In elementary grades, boys pull the pigtails of girls, who in response hit them on the head with a briefcase, and this is considered a sign of attention. More maturity is expected from an adult. Politeness and tact are a rarity in modern world and is therefore of great value.
Being polite does not mean being a bore. Politeness will help you not to ask tactless questions, not to say vulgar compliments to a stranger, not to be rude and avoid other embarrassing situations.
The habit of considering other people's feelings will help to avoid flirting - a dangerous line. active search. If a guy flirts with everyone he meets, this does not make him a fatal womanizer that someone wants to tame. Such behavior betrays self-doubt and uncertainty in views. In addition, most girls understand that if a guy does not lose sight of any girl now, he is unlikely to be faithful in a more serious relationship.
Though the girls give Special attention their appearance, they want to be recognized as a person. After all, relationships are, first of all, communication. To do this, you need the ability to maintain a conversation, which means not only being able to tell in an interesting way what you like, but also carefully listen to what the girl is interested in. Ask questions on the topic, and try to remember what she thinks on a particular issue.
All girls have one thing in common: for them, the most attractive thing in a guy is his responsibility and independence. The ability to accept important decisions and to be responsible for their result speaks of maturity and delights girls. At that time, a guy who, as an adult, lives with his mother on her salary, and cannot decide after a year of communication whether he needs this girl or not, causes concern.
There are guys who can confidently say about themselves: “I am independent, responsible and attentive. Why don't I have a girl who could match me? And this may be true. Despite the huge number of the fair sex that meet in the life of a man, among them there are relatively few who will be able to appreciate a good guy and be supportive for him.
You should not give up - there are still such girls, you just need to notice them and be interesting to them. It is worth paying attention to those with whom you work together, or whom you can turn to for help. It is important to have your own interests, and it is not uncommon for situations when exactly common occupation made it possible to meet true love.
The ability to play the guitar and sing is the weakness of many girls. Statistics show that it is guys with a guitar that attract more attention - a sort of image of romance. Such a skill can add chances.
Generosity is another quality that makes a guy attractive in the eyes of girls. It's not about expensive gifts rather about the willingness to please her.
It is important to be able to accept any answer and not lose dignity at the same time. There are situations when a girl wants a guy to show the seriousness of his intentions with perseverance. But if a specifically negative answer was given, imposing is not an option. So you can miss the one that is worthy and ready to be around. And she will definitely meet.
Natalia, Penza
